From Ryan Thomas Who Was An Alienated Child

Getting no response from your child? read this...



If you’re a parent who doesn’t hear from your child no matter what you do or say, I want to give you a different perspective...

--> YOU have the most potential for change...

This may feel counterintuitive, so let me explain why.

When alienated children aren’t communicating, it’s because they are stuck in a prison.

A prison that the alienator has built to have control over them.

From your eyes, those walls of their prison could feel impenetrable.

But from your child’s eyes, they don’t want to be in that prison.

They want to be free.

That means they can be who they really are, without being told what to do.

That means being able to freely love each of their parents, without getting bombarded with lies.

That means being from the chains brainwashing that they are hearing.

𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒆𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑳𝑰𝑮𝑯𝑻.

YOUR LIGHT.

Because they know that somewhere out there, they have a parent (YOU) who loves them.

You’re the escape plan they need.

It may not feel obvious in the silence.

But they are suffering in the silence.

And the one who will get them out of it is you.

YOUR WORDS, YOUR THOUGHTS, AND YOUR BELIEFS ARE POWERFUL.

If you’ve lost hope in your child, then the bars of their prison only get stronger.

But if you have hope and act on it, you can help them find a way out.

I can remember working with Michelle, a mom who faced either relentless silence or painful name-calling from her son.

She came to us at a loss, but that glimmer of hope still remained.

After learning our strategies and using the tools over and over, and doing the work, her son was calling her Mom again and cuddling with her every night she had her parenting time.

Her son was brought back to life.

Because she showed him the light.

How did she do this?
Knowledge | Strategy | Communication | Guidance | Mindset | Community

Those 6 things were the roadmap to being able to get her son out of his own prison.

It’s stories like Michelle’s that are my fuel for why I developed a program to help parents create breakthroughs.

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