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 By Joan T. Kloth-Zanard What causes abandonment issues?  How do they develop?  How does this  fear affect people?  And how to deal with it, when it comes to divorce  and Parental Alienation? Abandonment issues involve the fear that you will be  left alone with no one there for you, to hear you, to be friends with  you, to even care about you.  This is a learned behavior from past  experiences such as having someone leave and never return, having  someone lie to the person and now they trust no one.  Abandonment  issues reach to the depth and core of the person’s heart and soul and  could be part of a grieving process.  It triggers every imaginable  emotion they have and creates a devastating fear that causes the  person to do just about anything to prevent that abandonment from  happening.  In addition, any action deemed as abandonment such as a  separation or divorce or even a simple di...

  Theme 1: The False Narrative / Smear Campaign Did you know that one of the most common tactics in parental alienation is the smear campaign? One parent tells family, friends, neighbors, and even professionals that the other parent is "crazy," "dangerous," or "unstable." The goal isn't truth — it's isolation. When you hear only one side and the other parent has gone quiet, ask yourself: Did they go quiet because they're guilty? Or because no one would listen? Theme 2: The Fake Restraining Order Claim There's a tactic in family abuse that doesn't get talked about enough: telling everyone a restraining order exists when it doesn't. It's brilliant in its cruelty — the target can't prove a negative to every person who's been told, and most people won't verify. They just avoid. If someone has told you they "had to get a restraining order" against another person, have you ever actually seen it? Court records are...